Van Gogh said that 'conscience was a man's compass'. Einstein reminded us, "Never do anything against conscience even if the state demands it." Aquinas told us, "Every judgement of conscience, be it right or wrong, be it about things evil in themselves or morally indifferent, is obligatory, in such wise that he who acts against his conscience always sins." If conscience is so important to us, why do so many 'violate' their own conscience time and time again? To believe something is wrong, then pursue it anyway is a clear-cut violation of one's own conscience - the very 'tool' God gave each of us to help us avoid sin in the first place. If we focus on one 'rule' in a stricter sense than we do another 'rule', aren't we being hypocritical? Tattoos were prohibited under Levitical Law, but so were haircuts of certain styles and clothing made up of more than one type of material!
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Monday, October 14, 2024
What does your conscience say?
Van Gogh said that 'conscience was a man's compass'. Einstein reminded us, "Never do anything against conscience even if the state demands it." Aquinas told us, "Every judgement of conscience, be it right or wrong, be it about things evil in themselves or morally indifferent, is obligatory, in such wise that he who acts against his conscience always sins." If conscience is so important to us, why do so many 'violate' their own conscience time and time again? To believe something is wrong, then pursue it anyway is a clear-cut violation of one's own conscience - the very 'tool' God gave each of us to help us avoid sin in the first place. If we focus on one 'rule' in a stricter sense than we do another 'rule', aren't we being hypocritical? Tattoos were prohibited under Levitical Law, but so were haircuts of certain styles and clothing made up of more than one type of material!
Tuesday, October 10, 2023
A change of heart
God's people will continue to struggle with the influence of those 'religious individuals' around them who seek to 'bind' them with rules and regulations. In Paul's epistle to the Galatian church, he recounted the purpose for the Law of Moses - to point out the need for a Savior - but he also reminded them how impossible it is to ever keep ALL of the Law. In fact, he goes so far as to say the Law was meant to be kept in its entirety, but no one was actually able to do that, so depending on those rules and regulations as your means of being made right with God was quite foolish. Grace came to us through the sacrificial offering of Christ dying on the cross. Grace differs from the system of works in the Law - one is God doing it all for us, the other is us trying to do it all for God!
In our passage today, we observe Paul's earnest desire for each of us to understand the unlimited resources available to those who enter into this relationship with God through faith in the finished work of Christ. His Holy Spirit comes to empower us to live right - something we find very difficult without his presence guiding us out of 'slavery' to the way of living by 'rules and regulations'. There is something powerful that happens when we stop 'trying to work our way to God' and we begin to trust that God has already worked his way into our hearts. We begin to find rest and a sense of peace that permeates our every fiber. Is sin still a constant temptation to us? Yes, as long as we live on this earth, sin will tempt us, but with God's Spirit within, sin need not win.
Saturday, May 6, 2023
Where is that foundation?
In considering events in the lives of those who have known fame and fortune, we also must consider just how fame and fortune has left them wanting so much more than it ever promised or provided. Fame and fortune are elusive - they keep those who pursue either of them running toward them as if under their spell. They are also disappointing - leaving those who finally "achieve" their end wanting more, but not really satisfied with what they have! Sound familiar to anyone other than me? Wanting more that what we have, chasing what seems to have us under some "spell" or external "control"? We may not be pursuing fame in the sense of the movie stars, but we may be pursuing something with as much tenacity - something which will not truly bring us any satisfaction once attained.
A thick bankroll is no help when life falls apart, but a principled life can stand up to the worst. (Proverbs 11:4)
Life WILL fall apart at some point. Whatever we place our trust in today will become the force we reckon with then. We may not realize when or where our "tipping point" may come, but there is a tipping point. As a kid, I would work for hours on those little domino experiments. Sometimes I would encounter a particular point at which I just could not get anymore of the dominoes to fall. Most would have fallen, but at this one point (either a turn or because the height was different), no more would fall. What made the difference was either the variation in the height or the distance between the last domino to fall and the one which remained upright. Sometimes it was the slight variation in angle at which the domino was erected. Regardless, they wouldn't fall beyond that certain point. I think our lives might be a little like this when we get our focus off where it really should be. We go along "erecting the dominoes" in a good path for a while, then we get a little variation in where we are headed, causing us to be at risk for "falling down" in rather short order. It is good to know that the slightest "variation" is all it takes to set us in a course which can come tumbling down in a moment's time, though. I think it keeps us humble!
We all have "tipping points" in life when we are at our greatest risk for life crumbling or tumbling down. The "trick" is to allow the space between what could take us down and what has become our foundation to be great enough to keep us from being knocked down when those things we have been focusing on might just come tumbling down! If our foundation is laid correctly, we are not going to be totally wiped out by a wrong pursuit! We may suffer some loss, but we won't be totally taken out by it! This may not seem like a very "spiritual" thing to say, but it is truth. We are the kind of creatures who will (on occasion) pursue a path which is not really the best for us to pursue. Those paths are what place us at risk of succumbing to the "tipping point". At that moment, what might just be the slightest difference in distance between our "firm foundation" and that wrong path makes all the difference in keeping us on our feet!
Think of the dominoes as "principles" upon which we build our lives. Domino number one: Serve no other God but the One True God. Domino number two: Love him with all your heart, soul, and mind. Domino number three: Love others as he has loved you. Domino number four.... You get the idea. As we surrender to the one who wants to set the "dominoes in order" in our lives, we are assured a good foundation. It is when we begin to take on the work of building our own "domino path" that we get a little off-course. The dominoes we erect will eventually produce a tipping point which can set us at risk of loss, but only to a certain point! That which was erected by the Master's skillful hand will remain standing - that which was erected by our own lusts, greed, demands, and warped perceptions will eventually be knocked down by whatever it was we were pursuing in the first place. Just sayin!
Monday, December 26, 2022
Life Hack #4 - Within or Without
Keep those boundaries - but you have to know them before you can keep them! Boundaries are really nothing more than a dividing line. We have all kinds of "dividing lines" in life, don't we? Some are quite real - like those drawn for the purposes of playing a sport on the field. Others are set up in our minds - not specifically clear to others, but definitely clear to us. The problem comes when someone wants to move one of those boundaries - stretching it or reducing it in some manner. We feel a little threatened, challenged, or overcome by this attempt to move the "markers", don't we?
Don’t stealthily move back the boundary lines staked out long ago by your ancestors. (Proverbs 22:28)
In Old Testament times, they did not have surveyors with highly technical laser point imaging tools to assist in laying out boundary lines. They'd use landmarks or "markers" of sorts to indicate a boundary. They'd say the boundary limit was the mountain range to the east or the river to the west. If they had no such "visible" limit, they'd set up some kind of pile of stones or pillar. That "pile" would stand as a marker to indicate the point of boundary.
There are also boundary lines of different sorts which we often refer to as rules or commandments. The Ten Commandments were given as "protective boundaries" in our lives. They were never meant to be "laborious" or "impossible" to keep but were designed to assist us in remaining in a place of safety - spiritually, physically, emotionally, and 'relationally'. This is all that God's "rules" really are anyway - like guardrails on a winding highway, they keep us safe from going over the edge!
One thing is certain - boundaries are not to be moved! We cannot dispute the "ownership" of a particular piece of property because the boundary lines establish that ownership. The boundary lines we choose to live within in our own lives often show who has been declared the "owner" of our lives! Live within God's boundaries and we are showing he is the owner of our life. Choose to constantly be moving those boundary lines and we reveal the ownership is really ours and not his. This doesn't seem very significant, but we often move boundaries little by little, almost as though we'd hope nobody would notice them being moved. In truth, God catches each subtle movement of the boundaries, and he is grieved when we push them away, or even "fudge the line" a little.
Learning to trust the boundaries God establishes for our lives is part of growing up in Jesus. Trusting him enough to stay within those established boundaries is a matter of maturity - not moving those lines is a matter of obedience. Boundaries established early in our walk with Jesus are not meant to be moved later on - they may become clearer as we walk with him, but once established, they are to be honored. Just sayin!
Thursday, November 10, 2022
Rule-Maker Focused
Do not snatch your word of truth from me, for your regulations are my only hope. I will keep on obeying your instructions forever and ever. I will walk in freedom, for I have devoted myself to your commandments. I will speak to kings about your laws, and I will not be ashamed. How I delight in your commands! How I love them! I honor and love your commands. I meditate on your decrees. (Psalm 119:43-48)
As I have mentioned on other occasions, it can be hard to keep 'rules' - some believing that God's commandments are merely a set of 'rules' that must be kept or else. It is the 'or else' that keeps them constantly striving to 'do' as the commandments require, but if we live our lives with an 'or else' kind of faith, we are always going to be looking over our shoulders or fearing the hammer is about to fall. Yes, God is a God of justice. Yes, he has laid out his commandments or 'spiritual rules' for each of us to clearly understand. He has NOT left us powerless to 'live within' the boundaries of his commandments, though. We don't 'do' obedience - we 'live' obedience. There is a difference. The difference comes in the attitude of heart toward the 'rule' or commandment. If we are constantly living in fear of 'not keeping the rule' to the letter of the rule, we are living with chains on - bound to the rule. We are meant to be heart-bound to the one who gives the rules, not soul-bound to the rule itself. What is established when a surveyor sets out a marker of boundaries for the builder? Is it not showing the builder the area of land that is 'safe' for the work that needs to be done? The builder begins to work 'within' those boundaries because the 'scale' and 'scope' of the work is established by those boundaries.
The boundaries God gives in our lives (his commandments) are meant to help us stay within the 'scale' and 'scope' of work, play, and relationships he knows will allow us to enjoy our lives. The 'scope' is our 'space of movement' - within the boundaries, we can move as freely as we like. As soon as we start to approach the limits of those boundaries, we begin to encroach upon territory not declared to be ours. It could be because it will be unsafe for us to traverse that territory - we aren't ready for it, aren't mature enough to explore it, or it will not produce good things within our lives. To push beyond the boundaries into what is not within our 'scope' is indeed unwise. The 'scale' determines the extend or range of activities that are deemed to be safe for us within those boundaries. Some might think of this as the 'spectrum' of things that are 'okay' for us to explore. The boundaries God establishes through his commands may not leave a lot of wiggle room for us - such as don't steal, don't commit adultery, and don't covet. Then there could be a little bit of wiggle room for some other things - such as do I get my ears pierced, can a Christian get a tattoo, or is it okay to drink a glass of wine with supper. Scripture declares some commandments as 'absolutes' and then it may afford us the 'choice of conscience' as to other things.
To be bound to the rule may actually keep us from understanding the extreme love of the rule-maker. Every 'rule' is given in love - protection being at the core of each set of boundaries. So, we shouldn't let the rule be our focus - we need to let God be our focus and the rule will not seem like a limitation as much as it will become our choice in order to enjoy absolute protection. Just sayin!
Saturday, November 13, 2021
So, that's why
Even today when the proclamations of that old, bankrupt government are read out, they can’t see through it. Only Christ can get rid of the veil so they can see for themselves that there’s nothing there. Whenever, though, they turn to face God as Moses did, God removes the veil and there they are—face-to-face! They suddenly recognize that God is a living, personal presence, not a piece of chiseled stone. And when God is personally present, a living Spirit, that old, constricting legislation is recognized as obsolete. We’re free of it! All of us! Nothing between us and God, our faces shining with the brightness of his face. And so we are transfigured much like the Messiah, our lives gradually becoming brighter and more beautiful as God enters our lives and we become like him. (2 Corinthians 3:15-18)
Back in the day, I used to be quite a 'rule-follower'. As a matter of fact, my friends used to make a bit of fun with me because they knew I would not do some things they might feel was okay. They would ask me why I didn't want to do some things and I'd simply answer, "I am not supposed to..." That is kind of a lame answer - I admit it now. The truth is that I rarely understood the reason behind some of the rules I lived by, but I knew i wasn't supposed to break them. The only problem with living this way is that 'blind obedience' is that one is blind to the reason or rationale for the actions they are taking. They just know they aren't supposed to do this or that, but there is no connection between the rule and the one who made the rule. Christianity may have some 'rules' - like the 10 commandments - but it is the connection to the living Savior that makes all the rule-keeping make sense.
God's intent is that we come to know his personal presence with us - not that we keep all the rules. It is this personal relationship that actually allows us to make sense of the rules - the commandments that are meant to keep us safe. We are truly free to live 'within' the rules, but don't have to be so intent on making sure we don't break one. We actually have the power to stay within the lines - we don't find as much issue with the lines because we begin to understand they are there for our protection. God's intent is for us to come into close personal relationship with him. It is this 'closeness' that helps us realize the rules pointed to a truth we didn't otherwise see: God's grace through his Son, Jesus Christ. Why is it important for us to understand grace? We are all rule-breakers and we NEED his grace more than we really want to admit!
The 'lines' we are always trying to not 'color outside of' now point us toward a transformational way of living. Instead of seeing the 'rules' as constricting, we see them as revealing bits and pieces of how God's presence with us actually makes us more alive and more aware of our world around us. Our lives are filling with light - the light of God. This light is actually what helps us see the 'why' behind the rules - we begin to appreciate the dangers the world's darkness actually hides from us until we have the light to illuminate why we want to stay 'within the lines'. God's rules aren't restrictive where there is light to illuminate where the lines actually keep us in a place of safety! Just sayin!
Saturday, November 14, 2020
Not just barely free
Sunday, May 31, 2020
Life comes at us fast...are we ready?
Keep the rules and keep your life; careless living kills. (Proverbs 19:16 MSG)
I have shared this before, but my poster, entitled "Speed Kills", featured a man taking speed, then speeding down a road filled with turns, until finally he crashed and died. Kind of morbid when I look back on it, but my thought was to capture the twists and turns life puts us through and the dangers created when we don't "obey the rules". The rules we 'violate' are the ones that would have helped us avoid those twisty and danger roads! "Keep the rules and keep your life". Many don't realize Mr. Linkletter was an orphan, adopted by a preacher, growing up as a "P.K" (Pastor's Kid). He was abandoned by his own family when he was only a few weeks old, adopted by an evangelical preacher, and he grew up to be quite a man. One of his most talked about accomplishments in life is the longevity of his marriage! 75 years married to the same woman! Not a thing most people in Hollywood can boast! One of the things I liked best when he spoke to us was what he said about choices in life - there will be many, but not all will be the best for us. He was saying we have to keep growing, constantly developing, because none of us is perfect yet. So true!
Carelessness kills. Being careless is when we don't really pay attention to the choices we are making. We might think of it as being a little too "unconcerned" about the outcome. In making choices, when we are not concerned with the outcome, we almost always will be caught a little off-guard with what "comes out" of our choices! Rules are there for our safety. Although I don't like to think of scripture as a set of "rules", they are! The guidance set out in scripture does what a "rule" does - it sets boundaries for living. Embrace them and we usually come out okay. Disregard them, and we are mopping up the mess! The heart of our heavenly Father beats for us as his kids. His words to us are heard over and over in scripture - the beat of his heart for us is found in the words recorded for our learning and protection. His goal in all the "rules" - for us to avoid the hazards of carelessness. What seems burdensome to us at this moment makes all the difference in the outcome! Just sayin!
Friday, September 27, 2019
Cookie-Cutter Images
Legalism is helpless in bringing this about; it only gets in the way. Among those who belong to Christ, everything connected with getting our own way and mindlessly responding to what everyone else calls necessities is killed off for good—crucified. Since this is the kind of life we have chosen, the life of the Spirit, let us make sure that we do not just hold it as an idea in our heads or a sentiment in our hearts, but work out its implications in every detail of our lives. That means we will not compare ourselves with each other as if one of us were better and another worse. We have far more interesting things to do with our lives. Each of us is an original.(Galatians 5:23-26)
There is much to be said about "desire". Desire is a motivating factor - without it, every response we make in the "right" direction is nothing more than doing things "by the book". When we come to Christ, there is an exchange of nature. We get a new nature - one animated by the Spirit of God within. This very "indwelling" of the Spirit is what brings the animation that "drives" us toward "right" choices - what we refer to as obedience. The old nature has been "nailed" to the cross with Christ - the new nature is "incorporated" into our day-to-day choices by "grace". Grace operates in a realm way beyond "book learning" or "sentimental" reasoning. It operates in the spirit of man - giving us a sense of purpose in our obedient responses. It is more than just 'doing things by the book' because there is a connection to the purpose behind the obedient steps.
"Each of us is an original." As some know, I spent some time in the military. In those first months of Basic Training, the main thing we came to realize was the need to "conform" to the rules and regulations being taught. Whether it was in the steps taken to dismantle and reassemble a weapon, or the rigid detail of marching in line with fellow soldiers, there was a drive to "conform" to the plan of our superior's command. What we chafed so much against actually had a purpose - this conformity was a good thing, but we were not free to question the 'reason' behind the desire for this conformity. What I came to realize was that when we were a tight group of well-prepared soldiers we had each other's backs, could respond quicker to the needs of others in the group, and recognized easily when something was just not right.
Christian life is a little like military life. Although God asks for us to conform to the truth of his Word, there is a need for us to "come in line" with the requested steps we are to take. In the military, we learned to do it, or else we did a whole lot more push ups than any human should have to endure! In God's kingdom, we learn to do it because it produces the best effect in our lives - it helps us respond quickly and to see the needs of those around us. We don't obey the commands of God because we have to keep all the rules - we do it because we have come to realize that by keeping the rules, we enjoy the best of all God has for us! In the military, they worked to keep one from standing out above the others. We each wore the same uniform, marched in formation, called the same cadence, ate the same food, and dug the same trench. In God's kingdom, we wear a new nature, but it still allows us to be uniquely who we are - all our talents and personality shining through for God's glory. In fact, we "march" together in this walk, but we do it with a certain assurance of the outcome of our journey! We are each an "original" - we don't conform to a set of rules so we look like cookie-cutter images of each other. We "conform" so we might be "transformed" into the reflection of all Christ is! We become a reflection of his grace, mercy, and love.
In being transformed, we are actually becoming a reflection for others to experience the Lord in the unique manner in which only we can reflect him to others. As an "original", God "meshes" our unique personalities with his work of grace - in turn, we become the reflection of the purpose and possibilities of God's transforming power! So, although the "book" is very important, the "Spirit" is what animates us to reflect the book's Author! Let's live animated, shall we? Just sayin!
Tuesday, December 18, 2018
More than bending over backwards
"There is far more at stake here than religion. If you had any idea what this Scripture meant—'I prefer a flexible heart to an inflexible ritual'—you wouldn't be nitpicking like this. The Son of Man is no lackey to the Sabbath; he's in charge." (Matthew 12:6-8)
Their simple actions of removing grain from the stalks, and rubbing them between their hands to remove the outer "husks" of the grain, was the issue - not that they were hungry, not this specific source of food, and not even their desire to be satisfied. It was the action of 'conducting work' on the day dedicated to not doing any work. The Sabbath had become a day full of ritual observances, but it lacked the reality of seeking God, of truly enjoying his presence. The Pharisees were livid with Jesus and his disciples - they were not honoring the traditions of the Jews and this just wouldn't do. Their encounter of Jesus and his disciples was less than welcoming - they immediately confronted Jesus with an accusation: "Your disciples are breaking the Sabbath rules!" Not that they recognized their need for food, but that they weren't keeping all the rules!
I almost imagine Jesus at this point taking a deep breath, holding back the desire to roll his eyes and shake his head in disappointment at their lack of understanding about what the Sabbath was to be to the one who serves God. There are probably times when we receive a response from Jesus that is "tempered" with his grace when what we really deserve is a good "chewing out" for our lack of belief, limited understanding in the face of revelation, or our silly belief some 'set of rules' will get us somewhere in life. His response is direct and to the point. "There is far more at stake here than religion." This is the key we must see in what he says. Jesus is pointing out that the "religion" of the Jewish leaders had not produced what God would honor. They were hung up on the keeping of rules, while God was looking for obedient and submissive hearts. To so many, religion is a set of "do's" and "don'ts" - keeping many in a place where they don't really want anything to do with "religion". I think that was what Jesus was most concerned about that day when he responded as he did. He knew that the religion of rule-keeping was driving men further from God, not drawing them nearer.
"I prefer a flexible heart rather than an inflexible ritual." Plain and simple - Jesus focuses on the condition of the heart, not on all the good intentions, the innumerable times they had done "good stuff". He looks at the "pliability" of their heart - in other words, the responsiveness of their heart to the voice or leading of God's Spirit. The one thing that gains the attention of God more than anything else is the flexibility of our heart. If we are rigid in the keeping of rules with the idea that the rule-keeping will somehow get us the notice we desire from God, this does not move his heart. It is quite plain - the openness of our heart is what God notices. Rules are fine - that is not the issue. We spend lots of time developing the rules - far less time evaluating the heart that struggles with the keeping of those rules. Jesus is the Lord of the Sabbath - he is the "point" of the Sabbath. It is not the rules, the religious rituals, or the day of the week. The Sabbath was always known as being a day of rest. He is the one who provides perfect rest to our souls - the place where we cease from all the things that distract us from living for him and then we are drawn into the nearness of his presence.
A flexible heart is one that is capable of being "molded" without being completely destroyed in the process - one that is willing to be modified for the use of the one who is doing the "molding". The desire Jesus has for his disciples is that they be "pliable" in his hands - yielded to his leading, open to his voice, hungry for more of him. When he finds that kind of heart, he takes delight in making that one into his image. The person who is rigid in belief, unyielding in the "rules", finds themselves struggling with the "change of heart" that Jesus may be after. If we can learn anything from this exchange with the Pharisees it is this: We need to be flexible. That which is flexible is expandable. Jesus is looking for "expandable" hearts - because he desires to gives us more and more of his grace until it leaks out of us to all those around us! Just sayin!
Saturday, November 25, 2017
So, why all the rules, God?
One thing we can learn from history is that God's laws (rules for living) are always "fair". The same cannot always be said about the laws of the land, or those some insist upon in their "own little world". Human beings have a very hard time "being fair" - we just have a bent toward showing someone a little more "favor" than another (sometimes because that "someone" is us). It is important to remember a law is nothing more than a "rule" that helps to define the way we are to conduct ourselves - it defines how it is we are to be living - oftentimes guiding the culture of a group, not just our own self. All laws set parameters - boundaries. Living within those boundaries is what is referred to as being "law-abiding", but we all know some live much further from the boundaries than others!
It is important to ask God for help understanding his boundaries. If we don't, then we will make up all kinds of ways of interpreting why that boundary exists. In healthcare, there are certain "boundaries" set for us, one of which is the protection of health information from getting into the hands of anyone who should not have access to it. There are laws or boundaries set in the stock market, ensuring no one gets an unfair advantage over another in being able to buy or sell on the market. On the roads, the boundaries of which lanes I can use while traveling alone in my car are well-marked and there are different boundaries I can explore if I am with another passenger. While we don't always understand the boundaries, there are usually very good reasons for the ones that are set.
Too many times, we get hung up on the fact there are boundaries and miss the intent behind them - to keep us safe and provide an advantage to those who live within those boundaries. If I use a couple of the examples above, I could say the advantage behind the "insider trading" laws are to give us all a chance to equally share in the gains of a particular stock should we choose to trade in that stock arena. If I think about the use of the carpool lane, it is designed to reduce emissions by reducing the number of vehicles on the road each day, thus making it easier for us to breathe, while decreasing the commute times when less vehicles are caught up in that traffic each day. God's laws aren't much different - they keep us safe, provide for our well-being, and help us realize the best potential in our lives.
We don't want to just "guess" as to their meaning or intent. We want to know the intent, making it easier for us to stay within the boundaries, and maybe even live a little less content to "push those boundaries". Just sayin!
Saturday, July 22, 2017
No more white noise
Do you ever "complicate" things by adding just way too much to the time you take to do something, or by adding so many requirements that must be met before you will do it? I do on occasion and whenever I do, I find myself in a muddle that kind of bogs me down. I don't move at other times simply because I get confused about what I should really do as a result of all the "noise" in my life from that which I have allowed to complicate the picture. Whenever we attempt to "make better" what God has already declared to be "perfect", we just end up adding stuff that we could label as "unnecessary noise".
Paul is dealing with the Galatian church - not just the leaders, but those who have been busy adding "noise" to the daily walk of each of the believers there. In simplest terms, they were requiring some of the old "rules" of the Law of Moses to be kept in addition to the finished work of grace in these believer's lives. Noise - pure and simple - lends complexity, makes it hard to sort things out as well as we should, and makes us work harder to get at the core of what is at hand. As Paul points out, we didn't receive the Spirit of God by following any set pattern of rules - so to reintroduce those into our lives is kind of like adding "noise" to a symphony!
Some of us don't sleep well in a completely quiet house. We need what some refer to as 'white noise' - that little bit of hum produced by the turning ceiling fan, or the gentle in and out breathing of someone in bed next to you. Remove that "white noise" and we are like hyper-alert and just don't get into that place of rest we so desperately desire. In a spiritual sense, when we need all this created 'white noise' of the rules we insist on or requirements we believe must be met in order to achieve some measure of "spiritual position" to make us feel secure about where we are in relationship with God, we miss out on the beauty of the simple "rest" he has for us in this place of grace.
While this may not seem like much at first, the more "noise" we add to the simplicity and sweetness of grace, the less we become comfortable with the peace grace produces in our lives. What we need to do is learn to quiet some of the "noise" and really settle into the peace! Just sayin!
Wednesday, December 7, 2016
Okay, I need the rules
You are to fear Him and obey His rules and commands, just as I’m teaching them to you now. Do this your whole lives—you, your children and your grandchildren—and you’ll live in the land a long time. The Eternal is our True God—He alone. You should love Him, your True God, with all your heart and soul, with every ounce of your strength. Make the things I’m commanding you today part of who you are. Repeat them to your children. Talk about them when you’re sitting together in your home and when you’re walking together down the road. Make them the last thing you talk about before you go to bed and the first thing you talk about the next morning. Do whatever it takes to remember them: tie a reminder on your hand and bind a reminder on your forehead where you’ll see it all the time, such as on the doorpost where you cross the threshold or on the city gate. (Deuteronomy 6:2, 5-9 VOICE)
Thursday, April 7, 2016
You breaking any rules?
Monday, September 7, 2015
Determined to not just be "inside the line"
Monday, August 31, 2015
The heart is revealed
Monday, June 8, 2015
Muddied waters
Friday, March 21, 2014
And the winner is....
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
Get me off this hamster wheel!!!
For my part, I am going to boast about nothing but the Cross of our Master, Jesus Christ. Because of that Cross, I have been crucified in relation to the world, set free from the stifling atmosphere of pleasing others and fitting into the little patterns that they dictate. (Galations 6:14 MSG)
Did you ever stop to consider the position of being a "people-pleaser"? Whenever we assume the role of trying to live up to some standard set by this or that individual in our lives, we are allowing them to determine what is expected of us, how we should respond, and even what we should feel as a result of our actions. In the end, we are quite miserable - because it is IMPOSSIBLE to please people! Try as we might, the target is a constantly moving, so ever being in a position of really "pleasing" another is quite difficult! I have been trained to hit a moving target - but the ability to hit the moving ones doesn't allow me much accuracy in my shot - it only allows me to "graze" them on occasion! At best, we "graze" the demands of another - never really hitting them "dead on".
It is quite easy to get caught up in the little spinning "hamster wheel" of being a people-pleaser, isn't it? It truly is a "hamster wheel" kind of experience - just spinning endlessly without any real end to the demands. Today we spin a little, thinking we are making real progress, but tomorrow, we realize the wheel is moving, but we are really in the same spot as we were yesterday! Being on the "hamster wheel" in relationships where we become wrapped up in pleasing people is tiring business.
Paul says something quite revealing in our passage. As long as we are on this "hamster wheel" of being "people-pleasers", we aren't keeping the Lord central in our lives. Here is the crux of our decision - do we put Christ first, even in our relationships, or do we continue to allow others to determine our steps? Scripture tells us the steps of a righteous man are "ordered" - they aren't spinning out of control and going nowhere. They are "ordered" - done according to specific principles and well-planned. When we are wrapped into the control of always trying to please this one or that one, we find fulfilling each of their demands begins to violate some principle we know better than to violate. For example, we begin to lose control of our time. We find our time for things which "add to" our character begins to wane - time for meditating on God's Word, time for being quiet before God for a while, etc. The principle of seeking the Kingdom of God FIRST begins to take second place, then third, until one day we find our time for relationship with our Lord in last place!
The cross changed everything in our lives. Nothing remained the same - the patterns we followed changed. I think this is what Paul hoped we see - the hamster wheel is no longer our "place" of operation. We stepped off the wheel the moment we embraced the cross. We exchanged positions - no longer living by the changing rules of those who make demands of us, but living by the unchanging grace of God! Why do we ever drift into the "spinning wheel" of being people-pleasers? Isn't it because we aren't really sure of our identity apart from their approval? Paul wants us to recognize our "identity" and our "approval" are linked to the cross of Christ. We find our true selves at the foot of the cross and we go about living as our true selves by keeping ourselves right there! Move back on the wheel, and our identity becomes governed by the approval of others once again! So, where we chose to "anchor" ourselves makes all the difference!
Pleasing others is really stifling. This requirement added to the next one eventually chokes out the very thing we need for life! Nothing stokes the fire of our hearts better than being close enough to God to actually feel his breath gently nudging fire from the embers of our heart! On the spinning wheel, we only feel the pressure of the wheel. At the cross, we feel the breath of hope, grace, and love. One takes away our breath - the other breathes life back into a tired and worn-out spirit! Which one will you choose?