Showing posts with label Step by Step. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Step by Step. Show all posts

Saturday, April 22, 2023

Teetering just a bit?

All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on. (Havelock Ellis)

We all must learn how to let go and hold on at almost the same time. If you have ever seen a baby learning to walk, you know the tiny fingers hold tightly to the edge of the couch with one hand, while the other is reaching out so desperate to take that first step toward something they desire. It is kind of like that for us as we follow Christ - we long for something different, just out of reach, but we are holding onto something so desperately that we won't let go in order to achieve that end. 

Since you have heard about Jesus and have learned the truth that comes from him, throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception. Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy. (Ephesians 4:21-24)

We 'hear' truth, want to really reach out and take hold of it, but we are holding tightly to what we have come to trust in already. Right or wrong, we won't let go of the thing we believe will give us the security and safety we have come to know. God's plan has always been for us to learn to 'let go' of those things that hold us back and 'take hold' of the things that will help us propel forward (grow). Letting go isn't done in a vacuum because there is always something in sight (just out of reach) that we want to take hold of in turn.

As Ellis said, it is the mingling of the two that actually helps us grow - letting go and holding on. The baby only holds on as long as he sees the thing he desires is finally in reach, then he lets go and takes those steps toward the object of his desire. God may be asking some of us to let go of something that has made us feel 'secure' and reach out to something just a bit out of our comfort zone. Putting off one thing and taking hold of another. When he does, he is prepared to help us take those 'first steps', always there to encourage us and help us should we teeter a bit in our faith. Just sayin!

Monday, January 3, 2022

This leads to that...

Just outside hospitals and stores, you often find a sloped ramp which assists those coming in from the parking lot with walkers and wheelchairs to gradually transition onto the sidewalk without much effort. This area is usually painted a bright neon yellow. Why? I think it is to call your attention to the ramp just in case you need the little bit of "extra help" making the transition, but it is also to call your attention to the "change in elevation" for those who are walking along with or without assistive devices. The neon color helps to draw the eye to the area - in hopes one will be conscious of the transition which is occurring in that spot. I wonder if God has any such "neon" warnings for us as we make transitions with him in the spiritual sense - navigating from one point to another? The neon color of the sidewalk does more than point out the path for the one walking, but it also marks the potential of falling for those who don't heed its warning of transition.

Watch your step when you enter God’s house. Enter to learn. That’s far better than mindlessly offering a sacrifice, doing more harm than good. (Ecclesiastes 5:1 MSG)

God has provided various "transition points" for us in our spiritual walk. They may not bear the neon coloring of the walkway I mentioned above, but they do have some carefully planned indicators of the transition which is occurring. When we heed the signs of transition, the journey is made a lot easier. The person in a wheelchair could struggle to get the wheelchair up onto the sidewalk at some other point - having to find a way to bring those wheels up the 8 or 10 inches of sidewalk rise. They might even have to go a long way around to another transition point if they didn't use the one provided and clearly marked out for them at the entrance of the building. This seems silly when one is so clearly marked, doesn't it? Yet, we often find ourselves doing the same thing in our spiritual lives. We find points of transition clearly marked, but choose a different "point" at which we will attempt to make the transition in our lives. There is so much effort on our part in both seeking and trying to attain the transition at any other point than the one clearly marked out by God! The most amazing thing to me is how frequently we look for some other "transition point" other than the one God designs for our specific need!

Transition is a passage from one place to another. All of spiritual growth is based on making these passages, isn't it? We move in a continuum from one place to another, until we finally have lasting evidence of the growth in our lives. Each step requires an attentiveness to the voice of God - hearing ears and listening heart. Our emotions cannot be trusted to "find" the right transition point - we must key into the truth of God's Word, the integrity of his Spirit's guidance, and the knowledge of how we see as we observe him working in the lives of others on this journey. Regardless of where you go in life, there are points of transition all around you in the physical sense. You move from the outside into the house by means of a threshold - a point of transition. You traverse from one highway to another, until you reach your destination - each transition taking you just a little closer to your intended destination. You are constantly faced with multiple opportunities for transition - even in these examples, there is more than one "transition point". The house has both a front and back door - either could allow your transition from the outside. The highways only serve to make the trip a little faster, but the side-roads would also help you to arrive at your destination. The truth is, God marks out the best "path" for us - so we must make the transition as he intends it!

Being alert for the signs of transition in our lives often helps us avoid unwarranted hazards along the way. Whether it is a transition from one place in our attitude to another, or the movement from one level in a relationship to another - we need to understand the path we are taking! In most multi-story buildings we could take the stairs to the top, or we could enjoy the luxury of the elevator ride. The steps give us immediate access - no waiting to use them. Yet, there is a degree of exertion which taxes our body beyond its limits at times in trying to make it to the top! The elevator may take a little while to come, but based on what I know about taking the transition of the stairs, I mostly wait for the elevator! Now, if it is one or two flights, that is a different matter - either transition gets me there in about the same time. The choice in that instance may not make much difference. When I need to get all the way to the top floor, the choice I make DOES make a difference! I might reach the top, but winded, later than expected, heart-racing, and a more than a little fatigued! Use caution in choosing the correct transition points in your life - not just spiritually, but in every relationship, every financial decision, and in every dealing you involve yourselves in throughout the course of the day. The point at which we choose to begin our transition may make all the difference in how well we arrive at our destination. Just sayin!