More than just a plan
I have come to the conclusion rapid decisions and impulsive actions actually have a cost to them I may not want to actually pay. Excitement fades - reality sets in and it is around for a long, long time!
Being excited about something is not enough. You must also know what you are doing. Don’t rush into something, or you might do it wrong. People ruin their lives with the foolish things they do, and then they blame the Lord for it. (Proverbs 19:2-3)
Being excited about something (or someone) is not enough - we must also know what we are doing! This is where we get the phrase, "fools rush in". We indeed do stand a pretty reasonable chance of bringing ruin into our lives whenever we choose to be foolish in our timing, intent, or planning. We need all three to be under the guidance and leadership of the Lord in our lives - timing is best when it is on his schedule; intent is better refined when it is filtered through his mind; and planning is best when it is under his watchful eye.
We might always want what someone else has, wish we could have gone where someone else has gone, or yearn for the accomplishments another has achieved. We can live our whole life wanting, wishing, and yearning, but when we do, we miss out on all the living God intends for us in the "right now"! We can live too impetuously and make foolish decisions, or live too cautiously and miss out on all God intends for us. Either way, we are not living as full of a life as God would desire for us - we need the balance of both.
Excitement without knowledge is just not productive, is it? Enthusiasm is easily deterred by difficulty, laziness, and just plain dawning of common sense! People need more than good theory to produce something - they need the desire, passion, and commitment of heart, as well. We can offer all kinds of good theory, but it remains theory until the resources are put into it which actually turn it into reality. We can put all kind of thought into things we'd like to see changed, but until we take what is merely "theory" to us and begin to put it into action in our lives, it will remain an untapped resource! We can rush in without enough forethought to actually "cement" the theory into something we can put into practice within our lives, then wonder why it didn't "take". We can also reject stuff which could save us a lot of lost time and unnecessary worry - just because we don't want to make the effort. Either way, we end up almost accusing God for our lack of growth. How foolish is that? Just sayin!