Covering the Tab
9 Overlook an offense and bond a friendship; fasten on to a slight and—good-bye, friend! (Proverbs 17:9 The Message) The Amplified Bible puts this passage this way: He who covers and forgives an offense seeks love, but he who repeats or harps on a matter separates even close friends. To cover an offense is more than just overlooking it in a casual manner, responding with a flippant attitude that "it didn't really matter". Sometimes, I think we get a little confused with what it means to overlook an offense. You see, in friendship, there will be repeated offenses - that is a given. We don't set out to offend, but we find ourselves doing it sometimes without really noticing how our actions, words, or slights bring offense to another. The Amplified Bible is a little clearer about the process of "bonding a friendship". There is the process of overlooking the offense, and the subsequent process of forgiving it! When a friend and I go to a restaur