Maintain the distance
Have you ever been roped into an argument just by being in the wrong place at the right time? It is like some current pulled you into the raging waters and you found yourself just barely able to hold on for the ride! It isn't enough you were there, the other person wants to make sure you don't escape without "weighing in" on the argument - giving your opinion only opens the door to a more "heated" discussion! Sheesh! How did that happen? Well, it isn't always about whether we "wanted" to argue, it is about how well we "refused" to argue. Most of the time we don't "want" to argue - we don't get out of bed in the morning with the determination to pick a fight with someone today. Yet, we might just struggle a little with this ability to refuse to argue - especially when the subject begins to turn toward something we are passionate about, or even us! Learning to refuse to argue is indeed a skill we each will be ...