Pluck that grey hair!
As kids, didn't we do a much better job "obeying" our parents when they were right there with us than when no one was looking? The only probable exception was when we were with one of our friends' parents. We acted like total angels around them, making our parents nearly nuts when they saw how perfectly we could act with them and how insanely disobedient we could be when we were at home! The cookie jar was never a temptation when mom was home - she'd have whipped me but good if I stole into that between meals. Yet, if she happened to be at work when I got home and the house was "free of parental supervision", I'd scour the pantry for chocolate chips, the candy jar for one or two hard candies, or the like. Why? No one was watching! When someone was home, I was "monitored" for my obedience. When no one was there, the "monitor" was gone. At first, this may not seem like a big deal, but it was probably more important for me ...