Enabled or Enabling?
I often think some people want to walk a different road than they are traveling. Their way is complicated with all kinds of relationship issues, the path is riddled with things which have spun out of control, and the way is just plain hard. When I look upon these individuals, my heart breaks. Their choices have resulted in more hardship and "heart-hurt" than anyone would want to face. Yet, they often refuse the very advice they need to get them out of the place they are in! In the same way, I urge you who are younger: accept the authority of the elders. And everyone, clothe yourselves with humility toward each other. God stands against the proud, but he gives favor to the humble. (I Peter 5:5 CEB) If you have ever encountered an individual like the one I pictured above, then you probably have tried to give them some "good advice". It may have been immediately dismissed as "You don't know what I am dealing with here", or perhaps it was ...