Love prospers when...
Forgiveness is the final form of love. (Reinhold Niebuhr) Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends. (Proverbs 17:9) While it might seem odd to begin a new year with the intention of focusing on 'faults', let me assure you there are probably more than a few who brought relationship hurts into this year, as they have in years past. It has become a weight around their necks, dragging them down, but from which they cannot figure out how to be free. The truth of the matter is that forgiveness might not begin in the 'other guy's court' as much as it needs to begin in ours! Love prospers when hurts can be quickly mended. Whenever we allow our hurts to become huge, gaping holes in our hearts, we will find it harder and harder to let go of that hurt. It festers long after the one who inflicted it has left the scene. What may see counter intuitive to some is that forgiveness often begins with the one who is offended, not the one who ...