Convenience should not be our guide
Convenient vs. inconvenient. We are all faced with the challenges each and everyday which make us choose between what is convenient vs. what is a "little bit" to a "whole lot" inconvenient for us. When a friend asks for a ride home from work, if it is on the way home, it is convenient, so you probably don't balk. When they ask for a ride way out of your way, you might just be thinking up the excuses right now for why you could not do it today! We often look for excuses when something is a little bit harder than what we expected, or what we think to be "convenient" for the moment. If conversation comes hard for you, when another wants to sit with you and begin to explore your day, including your "feelings" of the day, you might just see this as a threat and come up with those excuses for why "now" is not the right time! If it is "easy", we seldom resist - but add any element of difficulty to a situation and we will s...