A little advice anyone?
"It takes a great man to give sound advice tactfully, but a greater to accept it graciously." (Logan Pearsall Smith) Tactfulness is simply the ability to know what to say or do in order to avoid offending somebody. Some call it the necessary "social skill" in order to deal with "difficult" or "sensitive" situations. Truth be told, my tactfulness flies out the window if I get too tired, a little frustrated because I am behind on projects, or just don't take the time to think before I speak. If tactfulness is that hard to be consistent with as we respond to people and circumstances, then maybe this is why we have a few more opportunities to "put things right" than we'd really like! Sometimes we are on the receiving end of tactfulness, while at others we are expected to be the ones exhibiting a little. It goes both ways, but sometimes the opportunities are a little more "one-sided" because one of the individuals is...